Wednesday, September 20, 2006

L-O-V-E

When you think of your past love, you may view it as a failure. But when you find a new love, you view the past as a teacher.

In the game of love, it doesn't really matter who won or who lost. What is important is you know when to hold on and when to let go. You know you really love someone when you want him or her to be happy, even if their happpines means that you're not part of it.

Everything happens for the best. If the person you love doesn't love you back, don't be afraid to love someone else again, for you'll never know unless you give it a try.

You'll never love a person you love unless you risk for love. Love strives in hurting. If you don't get hurt, you don't learn how to love. Love doesn't hurt all the time. Though the hurting is still there to test you, to help you grow.

Don't find love, let love find you. That's why it's called falling in love because you don't force yourself to fall. You just fall.

You cannot finish a book without closing its chapters. If you want to go on, then you have to leave the past as you turn the pages.

Love is not destroyed by a single failure or won by a single caress. It is a lifetime venture in which we are always learning, discovering and growing.

The greatest irony of love is letting go when you need to hold on and holding on when you need to let go. We lose someone we love only when we are destined to find someone else who can love us even more than we can love ourselves.

On falling out of love, take some time to heal and then get back on the horse. But don't ever make the same mistake of riding the same one that threw you the first time.

To love is to risk rejections, to live is to risk dying, to hope is to risk failure. But risk must be taken because the greatest hazard in life is risk nothing. To reach for another is to risk involvement, to expose your feelings is to expose true self, to love is to risk not to be loved in return.

In love, one should:
- fall but do not stumble
- be constant but not too persistent
- share and never be unfair
- understand and try not to demand
- hurt but never keep the pain

Love is like a knife. It can stab the heart or it can carve wonderful images into the soul that always last for a lifetime. Love is supposed to be the most wonderful feeling. It should inspire you and give you joy and strength. But sometimes the things that give you joy can also hurt you in the end.

Loving people means giving them the freedom who they choose to be and where they choose to be. For all the heartaches and the tears, for gloomy days and fruitless years, you should give thanks, for you know, that these were the things that helped you grow.

Loving someone means giving him the freedom to find his way, whether it leads towards you or away from you. Love is a painful risk to take but the risk must be taken no matter how scary or painful, for only then you'll experience the fullness of humanity and that is love.

Only love can hurt your heart, fill you with desire and tear you apart. Only love can make you cry and only love knows why. If you're not ready to cry, if you're not ready to take the risk, if you're not ready to feel the pain, then you're not ready to fall in love.

There was a time in our lives when we were afraid to fall in love because every time we do, we get hurt, then I figured.. that's why it's called falling in love.

When you decide to love, allow it to grow. When you promise to love, refuse to let it die.

12 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

What's this all about? Is this poem in any way related to what's happening in your life now?

Thursday, September 21, 2006 7:24:00 PM  
Blogger sHenGGie said...

Yes, very much, I would say. It's related to each and everyone of us anyway.

Thursday, September 21, 2006 11:26:00 PM  
Blogger vic said...

Love is strong yet delicate.
It can be broken.
To truly love is to understand this.
To be in love is to respect this.

Friday, September 22, 2006 1:32:00 PM  
Blogger sHenGGie said...

Vic: Thanks much for dropping by, Mr. Love. ;-)

Friday, September 22, 2006 3:18:00 PM  
Blogger vic said...

Finding love
is like finding one answer
to all of your prayers.

Friday, September 22, 2006 3:53:00 PM  
Blogger vic said...

You know you've found love
when you look in their eyes
and find yourself.

Friday, September 22, 2006 3:55:00 PM  
Blogger sHenGGie said...

I guess you've already found your one true love? That's great! Goodluck. :)

Friday, September 22, 2006 4:03:00 PM  
Blogger vic said...

I didn't find her, she is God's Gift to me. If you have the following, then you know God has given you one too.

One look
One smile
One touch
One embrace
One kiss
One love
Two people
Two minds
Two souls
Two destinies
One road
One journey
One ending
Together

Friday, September 22, 2006 4:28:00 PM  
Blogger sHenGGie said...

As far as I know, I already found him. ;) I'm sure.

Friday, September 22, 2006 4:55:00 PM  
Blogger miGuel valEntino said...

Well, we found each other. That's a fact!!!

I love you Sweetie:)

Friday, September 22, 2006 5:00:00 PM  
Blogger vic said...

I'd like to wish both of you the best and may you be happy forever. He seems to be a sweet and nice person.

It was so inspring to have passby your blog. I have to go for now, me and my love will be going up to Baguio these weekend.

You take care and have a great weekend too. Vic

Friday, September 22, 2006 5:26:00 PM  
Blogger miGuel valEntino said...

Take care on your way to Baguio. have fun too...

Friday, September 22, 2006 5:30:00 PM  

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